The five elements of a well-packaged coaching programme
Here is what a programme should and should not say — not only to avoid contradictions with ICF standards, but to avoid creating the kind of expectation that comes back to bite you. Not because I know certification law, but because I know what sells and what builds trust.
1. The name and description
Their job is to signal the specific problem the programme addresses and point at the direction of the work — so the right person reads it and thinks: this is mine. Everyone else moves on. And the ones who stay already know what they are coming for, which means the discovery call stops being a screening conversation and becomes the first real conversation about their situation. To stay compliant, both the current and the desired situation must describe observable territory — what the client visibly does and experiences — without naming a cause or pre-writing what the client will discover.
Observable current situation → observable desired situation, with no assumed cause in between.
Do
Name the observable situation the client is in right now and where the work is headed.
- "From Hiding to Leading" — where the client is, where the work points. Nothing about why or how.
- "For first-time managers who have the title but not yet the footing — to map the situations that cost them most and build an approach that works for their specific team."
Don't
Promise an inner state or name an assumed cause.
- "Overcome Your Imposter Syndrome" — assumes the cause before the work begins. The client may arrive and discover the real issue is something else entirely.
- "You will feel like a real leader" — an inner state, not observable territory.
- "We work through your inner blocks" — assumes the cause before Session 1.
And one final rule that has nothing to do with compliance — it is pure marketing logic. Don't name the programme after your method. "The GROW Journey", "My 5-Step Framework", "The Wheel of Life Programme" — these mean nothing to the person you are trying to reach. They describe how you work, not what problem you solve. Your potential client is not searching for a method. They are searching for a way out of a situation they are living right now.
2. "This programme is for you if"
This is the one section where the rules change. You are not promising, not delivering, not describing a process. You are holding up a mirror: the client either recognizes themselves in what they read — or they don't. That is the only objective, and it is a purely marketing one. Which means feelings are not just allowed here — they are the point. The client is reading a description of their own inner life, asking one question: is this me?
Do
Describe the feelings, inner voices, and daily situations this specific client is living with right now — precise enough that the right person feels seen, bold enough that the wrong person self-selects out.
- "You walk into team meetings and spend the first ten minutes not actually listening — watching how others react to what you say, replaying what you just said, and preparing for the moment someone finally calls you out."
- "You prepare twice as hard as anyone else in the room — and it still doesn't feel like enough."
- "You avoid certain conversations with your team because you are not sure you have the authority to have them yet."
Don't
Name the cause of what they are feeling — that is still the client's to discover. And don't describe your method disguised as their feeling.
- "You are ready to admit that fear of failure is what is really stopping you" — tells the client what their problem is before Session 1.
- "You are looking for an honest conversation with yourself to untangle your fears" — describes the coaching method, not the client's situation.
3. The outcomes
The outcomes section has one job: show the client what they will have in their hands when the programme ends — concretely enough to picture, specifically enough to want. Every outcome has two parts: what we examined together, and what the client walks away with as a result. This stays compliant for the same reason as the name: outcomes describe the deliverables of a structured process the client drives themselves. The coach promises the quality of the work; what the client discovers inside it remains entirely theirs.
What we examined together + what you have as a result.
Do
Name what the client will have built, defined, or tested by the end — both sides of the formula visible.
- "A written map of the specific situations that trigger self-doubt — and the best-fit responses you have defined for each."
- "A map for the three conversations that currently cost you the most energy — and how to open, navigate, and close each one with your specific team."
- "A set of concrete behaviors you have identified and tested with your real team — with your own notes on what shifted."
- "A one-page picture of your actual leadership strengths — based on what you and the people around you have observed, not what you think you should be."
Don't
Promise what the client will feel, resolve, or discover about themselves.
- "You will understand the real reasons behind your self-doubt" — promises a specific revelation before the work begins.
- "You will feel like a real manager" — an inner state, not a deliverable.
- "You will be free from the fear of being found out" — a psychological resolution the coach cannot guarantee.
4. The structure
The structure section describes the arc of the work — what each phase is about, how many sessions it contains, and what exists between them. It is the map the client reads before deciding to make the journey. Naming a phase "we explore what is driving the self-doubt" is not pre-assigning a cause; it is describing the question the phase will work on. The answer belongs entirely to the client.
The coach defines the map. The client defines where it takes them.
Do
Use "we explore", "we examine", "we map", "we work on" for the client's inner territory. Use "you will have" only for concrete outputs.
- "Phase 1 — Orientation: we map the specific situations that trigger self-doubt — what happens, what it costs you, what patterns emerge. 2 sessions."
- "Phase 2 — Focus: we define how you want to show up as a leader — in your own register, with your specific team. 1 session."
- "Phase 3 — Building: we develop specific behaviors to test with your real team — with tools to track what happens between sessions. 2 sessions."
- "Phase 4 — Closing: we review what you have built, identify what is working, and map the steps you are taking forward independently — with a written summary and action plan. 1 session."
Don't
Pre-assign what the client will find inside the territory.
- "We will uncover the fears and beliefs driving your self-doubt" — the coach has decided what is there before looking.
- "You will separate your true desires from other people's expectations" — pre-determines the conclusion before the work begins.
5. Between sessions
This is where most coaches stop — and where a programme earns its price difference over a pack of sessions. Between-session materials do two things. They make the work stickier: insights revisited and observed between sessions land deeper than insights left to sit until next time. And they make the offer incomparable: you are no longer selling an hour that any other coach also sells. These can be reflection frameworks, guided prompts, short curated readings, self-assessments, simple tracking sheets — or an AI companion designed around your specific programme that checks in with your client between sessions, asks the next question, and builds a record of their observations. The ICF is explicit that the coach invites the client to consider how to move forward, including resources and support. Between-session materials are not consulting; they are part of the process — as long as they pass one test.
Does it prompt the client to think — or does it tell them what to think?
Coaching
- An AI companion that asks "what happened in that meeting, what did you tell yourself, what did you do".
- A trigger map the client fills in after each high-anxiety situation and brings to the next session.
- An AI micro-experiment tracker that checks in after each tested behavior — "what did you try, what happened, what did you notice".
Consulting
- An AI tool that responds "based on your answers, here are five strategies for your difficult conversation tomorrow" — regardless of whether a human or an AI delivers it.
- A script for "how to handle difficult conversations" — prescribes the answer instead of helping the client build their own.
One caution before you get excited about the AI companion idea: ICF ethics standards explicitly cover technology tools you use with clients — data storage, privacy, legal compliance. If you operate in Europe, that means GDPR before it means anything else. Vet any tool's data practices with the same care you give the rest of the client relationship.